こんにちは！
お喜楽道です^^
あなたは、
「自己責任」と聞いてどう思いますか？
昔の私は、超超超他人任せ、
他人に責任を求める人間でした。
当たり前のように、
・うまくいったら、自分のおかげ
・うまくいかなかったら、誰かのせい
という考えを持っていました笑
例えば、
・売り上げが下がったのは、
〇〇さんが成果を出さなかったからだ
・今月、資金繰りが厳しいのは、
〇〇社の支払いが遅いからだ
・〇〇さんがいなければもっと人件費を削れるのに…
・今月好調なのは、自分のアドバイスがよかったからだ
いや〜〜痛すぎますねw
やばすぎますねこいつ笑
でも、ある時から
「自己責任」で考えられるようになりました。
理由は、
現実創造というものは、
「自分自身が、種をまくことで
現実化してるんだ」ってことを知り、
今起こってる現実に対しても、
「自分自身が引き起こしてるんだ」
ここにようやく気づいたからです。
こういう考え方が当たり前になると、
自分が何を無意識に望んだから
今こういう現実になってる
っていう原因と結果の関係が
少しずつ見えるようになってきたんです。
と同時に、
自分が種をまいてる以上、
他人には、何の責任もなくて、
自分が種の中身を変えればいいってわかったんです。
こう思った時、
「自己責任」という考え方は、
「自分で現実を変えることができる」
＝他人には責任がない
だから、自己責任なんじゃないかなって
腑に落ちたんですよね。
さらに言えば、
現実を変えられるのは、自分だけと気づいた時、
とんでもない可能性を感じたんですよ。
だって、今目の前に広がってる現実が
自分が作り出してるもので
現実創造に他人が一切関係ないのであれば、
自分次第で現実をどうすることもできるわけじゃないですか！
これ、すごいと思いません？？
そして、実際に試しまくった結果、
私は今、自分なりの自由を手にしてるわけです。
今回のお話、いかがでしたか？
少しでも気づきがあったのであれば、
ぜひ、「自己責任」をあなたの当たり前にして、
少しずつ現実を思い通りに変えていってくださいね！
本日もあなたの人生が軽やかでお喜楽なものになることを
心から応援しています^^
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