人は一生誰かの価値観から逃げられない?

 

こんにちは!
お喜楽道です^^
 
 
意外と多くの人が、
 
「誰かのための人生を生きてる」
 
ことに気づいてないんだなぁ・・
 
って思うことがあります。
 
 
例えば、
 
「誰かから褒めてもらいたい!!」
 
と思っていたりとか、
 
「誰かから認めてほしい!!」
 
と思っていたりとか、
 
そういうのを大事にしてる人
 
とっても多いと思ってます。
 
 
でも、それって、
 
その人の本来の願いではありません。
 
 
 
幼い頃、
 
お父さん、お母さんに認めてもらえなかったから
 
今もずっと誰かに認められようと
 
頑張ってる人がいます。
 
 
でも、これって、
 
一生お父さん、お母さんのために生きてるのと同じです。
 
 
当人は、
 
そうじゃないと思っていても
 
お父さん、お母さんの都合で
 
生きているということです。
 
 
お父さん、お母さんは
 
おじいちゃん、おばあちゃんの
 
都合で生きているかもしれません。
 
 
 
かくいう私も
 
母親や父親の都合で
 
まだまだ生きてるかもしれません。
 
 
 
昔に比べたら、
 
かなり自由になりましたし、
 
自分で生き方を選択するようになりましたけど、
 
 
まだまだ知らずに
 
父や母、その他の誰かの価値観で生きている
 
ってことあると思ってます。
 
 
 
多分、本当の意味で
 
自分だけの人生を生きてる人って
 
ほとんどいないんじゃないかなと。
 
 
 
そんなことを考えてた時、
 
ふと思ったんです。
 
 
もしかして人間って、
 
選択をすることはできるけど、
 
一生誰かの価値観から
 
逃れることはできないのかも・・って。
 
 
 
だとしたら、
 
どうせ誰かの価値観で生きる必要があるなら、
 
私は、未来の自分の価値観を
 
取り入れることを選択したいなぁ
 
と思ったんですよね。
 
 
 
要は、
 
願望を実現している未来の自分だったら
 
今どういう行動をするのか
 
明日、どういうことをするのか
 
こういうことを考えて生きることをすれば、
 
未来の自分の価値観に沿って生きることになるのでは?
 
って思ったわけです。
 
 
で、少しずつ実践をしています。
 
まぁ、まだまだ常にっていうレベルではないですけど笑
 
 
でも、これをやり始めてから
 
生き方というものが大きく変わったように感じています。
 
 
なので、やってもやらなくてもいいですが、
結構オススメなのでシェアしてみました^^
 
 
あなたも、どうせ誰かの価値観に左右されて
 
一生を過ごすことになるなら
 
未来の自分の価値観を取り入れてみてはいかがですか?
 
 
本日もあなたの人生が軽やかでお喜楽なものになることを心から応援しています^^
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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