目標は追っちゃダメだよ〜〜

 
こんにちは!
お喜楽道です^^
 
 
あなたは、
 
目標を達成したい
 
こうなりたい
 
こういう結果を出したい
 
 
と思ったことありますか?
 
 
 
そういう時って大抵、
 
 
目標や結果自体を追いかけてると
 
 
うまくいかなかったりしませんか?
 
 
 
 
私は、自分で実務をしている時に
 
 
嫌という程、
 
 
目標を追いかければ追いかけるほど
 
 
そこにたどり着かないという体験をしました。
 
 
 
売り上げ1000万円を目標にしてるのに、
 
700万円で止まっちゃうとかw
 
 
 
でも、
 
 
その理由が、今ならわかります。
 
 
 
目標や結果を追いかければ追いかけるほど
 
 
遠ざかって行くんです。
 
 
 
これ、
 
 
自分が、不足に焦点を当ててるからです。
 
 
 
 
もっと言うと、
 
 
 
目標や結果を追いかけてるとき、
 
 
焦点を当ててるのは、
 
 
 
まだ目標に達していない側
 
 
 
目標や結果と今とのギャップなわけです。
 
 
 
ギャップに焦点を当ててるからこそ、
 
 
そのギャップ分が引き寄せられる
 
 
というか、
 
 
 
思考が現実化するんです。
 
 
 
だから、
 
 
今は、
 
 
目標は設定するけど
 
 
追うということをしなくなりました。
 
 
 
目標は決めて後はお任せモードの生き方です。
 
 
追いかければ追いかけるほど
 
 
うまくいかなくなります。
 
 
 
あなたはいかがですか?
 
 
 
目標を追いかけていませんか?
 
 
 
目標を追いかけると
 
 
頑張っても頑張っても
 
 
うまくいかずに苦しみます。
 
 
 
経験者は語るです笑
 
 
 
本日もあなたの人生が軽やかでお喜楽なものになることを心から応援しています^^
 
追伸:
 
[お喜楽道とお友達になりませんか?]
 
私に少しでも価値を感じてくださって、
シェアを受け取ってくださってる方と
もっともっと一緒に人生をよくして行けたらと思って、
お喜楽道公式LINE@をはじめました^^
 
今のところは、
 
波動を上げて人生をよくするコツ
ブログでは公すぎて書けないシェア
・お喜楽道のプライベートw
 
などを”不定期に”配信していきます。
 
個別トークでのお悩み相談もいつでも大歓迎です^^
 
(※人数増えて来たら返信自体ができなくなるかも・・
今がチャンスかもしれません。)
 
お喜楽にポチってみてくださいね〜〜
 
冷やかしはいりませんよ〜〜笑

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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