わがまま放題の人生を生きるには?

 
こんにちは!
お喜楽道です^^
 
 
最近、
 
めっちゃくちゃわがままになってきたなぁ〜〜〜〜
 
 
って感じてます。
 
 
よく言えば、
 
子供や赤ちゃんに戻ってきた
 
 
悪く言えば、
 
自己中になってきた
 
 
っていう感じですw
 
 
 
昔の私は、
 
誰かのご機嫌を伺って
 
 
「本当は、こういうことをしたいけど
 
このひとを傷つけたくないから」
 
って我慢をしていました。
 
 
他にも、
 
 
自分がこういう風にした方が、
 
場が丸く収まるって思ったら
 
そういう行動を取っていました。
 
 
 
これをすることで、
 
 
「人から好かれていたい」
 
 
っていう思いがあったんです。
 
 
 
当時はわかってませんでしたが、
 
 
冷静に分析してみると
 
 
「好かれたい」
 
 
だから、
 
こうする
 
自分を押し殺してでも
 
他人のためになることをしてました。
 
 
 
 
でも、
 
 
疲れちゃいました。
 
 
 
 
そして、
 
 
自分を大事にしようと思い、
 
 
実際に自分を大事にし始めました。
 
 
 
そうしたら、
 
 
本当の自分自身を出せば出すほど
 
自分が楽でいられるのに、
 
人間関係が豊かになっていきました。
 
 
 
その時、気づきました。
 
 
 
あ、今までの人たちは、
 
自分が尽くそうとしていたから
 
繋がることができていた人たちで
 
 
本当の自分にとっては
 
必要のない人たちだったんだ
 
 
って。
 
 
 
本当の自分を出せば出すほど
 
自分が心地よくいられるということ
 
 
本当の自分を出せば出すほど
 
自分がもっとも楽で居られる人間関係が築ける
 
 
これに気づいたので
 
 
私には、怖いものがなくなりつつあります。
 
 
 
私がどれだけわがままを言っていても
 
ついてきてくれる
 
一緒にいてくれる
 
時を共にしてくれる
 
そういう人とだけ付き合えればいい
 
 
そう思ってます。
 
 
 
そして、
 
 
本当の自分だから関わりを持ってくれる人
 
 
めっちゃくちゃいるんですよね。
 
 
 
だから、もう
 
私は、誰に何を言われようと、
 
わがままで居続けますし、
 
 
欲しいものは欲しいし、
 
いらないものはいらない、
 
 
これをはっきり言える人間に
 
どんどんなって行こうと思ってます。
 
 
 
このブログやシェアをするということは、
 
私がやりたいからやってるだけで
 
誰に何を言われようと
 
やめる気は一切ないし、
 
 
楽しくなくなったら
 
その時私の意思でやめる事になるでしょう。
 
 
まぁ、当分先だと思いますし、
 
天命だと思ってるのでやめないと思ってますがw
 
 
 
 
多分、
 
今回の話は、
 
 
まだわがままになりきれてない人からは
 
嫉妬されるかもしれませんし、
 
 
すでにわがままな人は
 
「そうそう、そうなんだよ」
 
って思われるかもしれません。
 
 
 
嫉妬を感じるなら、
 
あなたもわがままになりたいということなので
 
少しずつわがままになってみてはいかがでしょうか笑
 
 
 
誰のことも気にしないで
 
自分を出してるだけで
 
ついてきてくれる人がいる世界
 
楽しいなんてもんじゃないですよ笑
 
 
一緒に赤ちゃんに戻って、
 
わがまま放題生きてみませんか?w
 
 
本日もあなたの人生が軽やかでお喜楽なものになることを心から応援しています^^
 
追伸:
 
[お喜楽道とお友達になりませんか?]
 
私に少しでも価値を感じてくださって、
シェアを受け取ってくださってる方と
もっともっと一緒に人生をよくして行けたらと思って、
お喜楽道公式LINE@をはじめました^^
 
今のところは、
 
波動を上げて人生をよくするコツ
ブログでは公すぎて書けないシェア
・お喜楽道のプライベートw
 
などを”不定期に”配信していきます。
 
個別トークでのお悩み相談もいつでも大歓迎です^^
 
(※人数増えて来たら返信自体ができなくなるかも・・
今がチャンスかもしれません。)
 
お喜楽にポチってみてくださいね〜〜
 
冷やかしはいりませんよ〜〜笑

 

 

 

 

 

 

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