お喜楽道のコーチングのスタンスとは?

 
こんにちは!
お喜楽道です^^
 
 
昨日は、
 
人生で初めて
 
コーチングの募集というものをしてみました。
 
 
 
結果、
 
普段からLINE@でやりとりをしてくださってる何名かから
 
「受けてみたい」
 
というお声をいただけました〜〜〜〜
 
 
いや〜〜
 
ありがとうございます^^
 
 
 
ぶっちゃけ、
 
来たら嬉しいし、
 
来なくても自分自身が何かまだ
 
「コーチング」でお金を受け取るということに
 
ブレーキがあるのかもしれないなぁ〜〜
 
 
くらいに思ってたんですが、
 
 
数名でも受けたいと言ってくださったので
 
 
「あ、今の自分でもOKなんだ」
 
「コーチング受けたいって言ってくれる人がいるんだ〜〜」
 
 
っていう自信になりました笑
 
 
まぁ、まだ金額をお伝えしてないので
 
受けていただくことになるのかはわかりませんがw
 
 
 
というのも、
 
正直、来るかわからなかったので
 
昨日のブログを書いた時点では、
 
詳細詰めてなかったんですよねw
 
 
 
なので、
 
「やばい、来ちゃった・・」
 
「でも、金額決めてないぞ・・」
 
 
ってな感じで慌てて、
 
 
「今の自分が当たり前に受け取れる額」
 
 
これ以下だったら
 
自分を過小評価することになるので
 
やってあげてる感が出てしまうだろうなぁ〜〜
 
とか
 
これ以上だったら
 
自分を過大評価してるので
 
受け取りすぎてるだろうなぁ〜〜〜
 
とか
 
シミュレーションを重ねてみました。
 
 
 
その結果、、、
 
 
 
私がこの時間を割くとしたら
 
この金額だなと断定できるものが出て来たので
 
まずは、その金額を個別でお伝えして
 
その価値を感じるか否かで
 
どうなるかを見てみようかな〜〜〜
 
と思ってます。
 
 
 
まぁ、もしも、
 
「この金額だったらやめときます・・」
 
みたいになったとしても、
 
 
私は、自分の価値を
 
お伝えする金額がふさわしいと考えてるわけなので
 
その価値に見合わないと思う人は、
 
無理して来ていただく必要もないと思ってるんですよ。
 
 
 
そもそも、
 
必要じゃないのに、
 
来ていただく必要は全くないですし、
 
必要じゃないなら、
 
そのお金別に欲しくないのでw
 
 
 
 
コーチングが必要か否かは、
 
個々人のタイミングだと思ってますし、
 
 
そもそも、
 
ビジネスも人生も悩み相談も
 
全部そうだと思うんですけど、
 
 
「コーチ側が最高の状態、
 
最高のエネルギー状態を保てていないと
 
コーチングってやれない」
 
と思うんですよね。
 
 
 
 
ってなると、
 
金額については、
 
はじめにこの金額以下ではやらないっていうラインを
 
明確にして、それ以上で受けるということを
 
コーチ側がはっきりと決めないと、
 
 
初めは良くてもどんどんバランスが崩れて
 
どんどんストレスが貯まるだろうし、
 
結局、お互いによくない関係になっちゃうと思うんですよ。
 
(これは、社内の人間関係がそうだったので…)
 
 
 
私がコーチングのゴールとして置きたいのは、
 
そんなに力む感じでやりたいわけじゃなくて
 
楽しくおしゃべりしてたらなんかわからないけど、
 
受ける前と受けた後だと
 
赤ちゃんに近づいたなぁ〜〜〜〜〜〜
 
人生が軽やかになったなぁ〜〜〜
 
 
みたいな感じなんですよね笑
 
 
 
まぁ、実際、
 
社内で教育という形でやったり、
 
友人にコーチングめいたことをして
 
喜ばれたりはすでに何十回以上もしてたんですけど、
 
 
 
つい最近まで、
 
コーチングという概念に違和感を感じてたのもあって、
 
 
コーチングとして
 
お金をいただくのって初めてなので
 
流れに身を任せて
 
最終的にコーチングの型ができてくるんだと思ってますw
 
 
 
とはいえ、
 
どうせなら、
 
できる限り時間内で多くのものを受け取っていただきたいし、
 
それを実現するためには、
 
自分の価値を下げず、
 
ストレスを感じるようなことをしないことが必要だと感じたので
 
私自身が適正だと思う金額をいただくことにしました^^
 
 
 
それで、今はいいやって言われても
 
いつか機会があったらどうぞ〜〜〜
 
 
って感じなので、
 
 
受けるか受けないかは、
 
あなたの心に素直に従っていただくと良いと思ってます〜〜
 
 
 
それで、1人も受けてくださらなくても
 
今は、まだ私の価値はその程度なんだな〜〜〜
 
って思うだけなので笑
 
 
さて、どうなるやら〜〜〜
 
 
最後に、
 
半年ほど前に収録した自己投資についての音声が
 
ふと直感で降ってきたのでシェアしますね〜〜〜
 
こういうお蔵入りというか、
 
世に出せてないの多いんですよね笑
 
判断基準の参考にどうぞ〜〜〜^^
 
 
 
今日のところはそんな感じですw
 
 
ちなみに、今後のコーチングの募集は、
 
ブログに書くよりもクローズドの場だけで良いかなって思ったので
 
LINE@だけでやろうかな〜〜〜とも考えてます。
 
まぁ、これも考えてる程度ですが〜〜〜
 
 
本日もあなたの人生が軽やかでお喜楽なものになることを心から応援しています^^
 
追伸:
 
[お喜楽道とお友達になりませんか?]
 
私に少しでも価値を感じてくださって、
シェアを受け取ってくださってる方と
もっともっと一緒に人生をよくして行けたらと思って、
お喜楽道公式LINE@をはじめました^^
 
今のところは、
 
波動を上げて人生をよくするコツ
ブログでは公すぎて書けないシェア
・お喜楽道のプライベートw
 
などを”不定期に”配信していきます。
 
個別トークでのお悩み相談もいつでも大歓迎です^^
 
(※人数増えて来たら返信自体ができなくなるかも・・
今がチャンスかもしれません。)
 
お喜楽にポチってみてくださいね〜〜
 
冷やかしはいりませんよ〜〜笑

 

 

 

 

 

 

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