[引き寄せの法則]いい事も悪い事も本当はないって知ってました?

お喜楽道的生き方
 
こんにちは!
お喜楽道です^^
 
 
あなたの人生には、
 
何か嫌なことがあったり、
 
反対に、何かいいことがあったり、
 
と様々なことが起こりますよね?
 
 
その時、
 
あなたは、
 
どう解釈していますか?
 
 
 
例えば、
 
 
電車で足を踏まれたとします。
 
当然、「何だよ!ふざけんな!」
 
って思うかもしれません。
 
これは、当然プラスとマイナスで言えば、
マイナスの解釈ですよね。
 
 
他にも、
 
 
自分は、頑張ってるつもりでも
上司から叱られたり、怒られたりした。
 
 
「自分は、こんなに頑張ってるのに
何で、こんなこと言われないといけないの?
あの人おかしいんじゃないの?」
 
 
こんなことを思ったとします。
 
 
そういう時、たいていの人は
マイナスに解釈をします。
 
 
でも、
 
そういう出来事が起こる原因を
 
あなたは、その出来事よりも前に、
 
「思考」していたのかもしれません。
 
 
ここで重要なのは、
 
行動ではなく、思考していたということです。
 
 
 
確かに、叱られるということは、
あなたがそれ相応の過ち=行動をしたのかもしれません。
 
 
でも、
 
ここで大事なのは、行動ではなく、
 
 
あなたが、
 
自分自身で「自分がマイナスに解釈できる出来事」を
思考していた
 
 
その結果、
 
ただ単に、叱られるという形で
あなたの現実にやってきた。
 
 
これが真実だったりします。
 
 
もっと直接的に言えば、
 
任された仕事があった(月目標を決めた、タスクを決めた)
何らかの事情でできなかった(頑張ったけど及ばなかった)
怒られるかも、叱られるかも・・
(ここであなた自身が「思考」してる)
結果、あなたの元に、
「叱られる現実」がやってきた
 
 
こういう仕組みです。
 
 
そして、
 
厄介なのは、
 
叱られたことをマイナスに解釈すると
それはまた、あなたが「マイナスの出来事が起こる現実」を
今その瞬間に思考してるので
その通りのまた、マイナスに解釈できる現実が
あなたの元にやってくるんです。
 
 
これは俗に、
 
「思考は現実化する」
 
というものとして、世に広まっています。
 
 
さらに言えば、
 
目標が未達だった。
またダメだった〜〜、俺はなんてダメなんだ〜〜
(あなたが自分をダメだと思う現実を思考)
結果、また目標が未達かあなたが自分をダメだと思う現実登場!
 
こんな感じです。
 
 
これやってる人、多いと思いますよ〜〜〜
 
 
 
今日は、もうちょっとだけ続きます。
 
 
今、マイナスに解釈すると、
 
ということを言いました。
 
 
あなたが、マイナスに解釈するとマイナスの出来事が
現実にやってくる。
 
 
であれば、
 
同じ出来事をプラスに解釈して
あなたにとって、プラスの出来事を現実に
やってこさせることもできるわけです。
 
 
 
いいですか?
 
 
これとっても重要なんですけど、
 
どんな物事にも、プラスとマイナスの両面が存在します。
 
 
足を踏まれた時に、
 
たいていの人、昔の私も
 
「なんだよ!フザケンナ!」
 
って思ってました。
 
 
大学生の時ですね笑
 
 
こういうときは大抵、
 
急いで学校に行ったのに2限が休講になったりとか
傘をパクられるとか
 
そういう嫌〜〜な事が立て続けに起こってました
 
 
そのときは知らなかったからです。
 
 
 
自分の解釈=思考がその後の現実を作ってるなんて。
 
 
 
でも、今はそういうことを知ったので
 
自分にとって嫌な事が起きても、
 
まず、立ち止まってそれが起きた意味を
考えるようになりました。
 
 
もちろん、これをちゃんとできるようになってきたのは
つい最近です。
 
 
今の私は、ちょっとやそっとのことじゃ
イライラもしなくなりました。
 
 
物事には、プラスとマイナスどちらもあると知った上で、
解釈の訓練を続けてきたからです。
 
 
あ、ちょっと前に喉が痛くて声が出せない時は
歌を歌ってエネルギー回復もできなかったので
どんどんイライラが募ってましたけど・・
 
 
でも、今思うと、
 
・5月に睡眠時間削って頑張りすぎてたからもっと生活リズムを正せっていう意味
(自分は楽しかったけど、体が追いついてなかったことで
このまま行くとやばいよっていうお知らせが来た)
 
・大好きなものを奪われるとこんなにも苦しいというお知らせ
=もっと声を世に出していこうという決意
 
・自分でなんでもやらずに、人生的にサポートに回ろうという気づき
=自分がやることで、自分以外の人の成長の可能性を奪っていた
=自分も苦しいし、自分以外の人もなんでもやられちゃうと面白くないだろうなぁ
じゃあ、最低限のコンテンツを作って、あとは安西先生のように見守る形を取ろう笑
 
 
などなど探せばプラス面って必ずあるんですよね。
 
 
起こった時はわからなくても
後から冷静になると見えてきたりします。
 
 
長くなっちゃいました。
 
 
今日、お伝えしたかったことは、
 
どんなことにもプラスとマイナスがあり、
そのどちらに解釈するかはあなた次第。
 
 
その選択により、
 
あなたのこれからの人生は
 
いいことが起こるようになるか、
悪いことが起こるようになるか、
 
これが大きく分かれることになりますよ〜〜〜〜
 
 
・売り上げ、利益が思うように上がらない
 
=自分の行動を見直すチャンス
 
・叱られたり、怒られたりした
 
=自分が成長できるチャンス
 
ですよね。
 
 
一見すると、マイナスでも必ずプラスが隠れています。
 
 
ちなみに、
 
どうやっても、
 
「マイナスに解釈して思考してなかったんだけどなぁ・・」
 
って時は、
 
 
別の形で思考してたりします。
 
 
これはまた長くなるので別の機会に…
 
 
と思ったのですが、
 
 
ちょっとだけお話すると、
 
 
・売り上げ、利益をこのくらい上げたい
 
=今のやり方では、ダメだから
 
あなたの現実に
 
「あなたが望む結果をもたらすためにわざと叱られる、怒られる」
 
などの「未来のあなた」からしたら、プラスな事
(だけど今はマイナスに見える)が起こってるだけの場合もあります。
 
 
思考したから、そのまま来るとは限りません。
 
 
別の形で来る場合もあるんです。
 
 
ここら辺は、
 
もっと自分の人生に起こってることを考え始めると
より理解できてくると思います。
 
 
このお話は、深〜〜〜いので
信じていただける方は、
 
どんどん人生をより良くしていってくださいね〜〜〜^^
 
今日もあなたの人生が軽やかでお喜楽なものになることを
応援しています^^
 
 

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