今のままのあなたで完璧なのだ〜〜

お喜楽道的生き方
 
こんにちは!
お喜楽道です^^
 
 
先日、お世話になってる方と
家の近くのカフェでMTGをしました。
 
 
なんでも、
 
その方が1年後を目処に、海外移住をするらしく、
その方の会社の社長か役員をしないかという
とんでもないお誘いを受けたんですw
 
 
この話は、
 
時系列に沿ってもっと詳しく話すことで
あなたにも役に立つかもと思っているので、
 
またクローズドの場だけで
いずれしようかと思いますが、
 
今日のお話のメインはそこじゃありません。
 
 
今日のお話のメインは、
 
そこにくっついてきた
 
というか、
 
その方が、一緒に連れてきた赤ちゃんがメインです。
 
 
その方とは、
 
ビジネス面や宇宙の法則の面での
お話はしたことがありますが、
 
その方の赤ちゃんは、
 
初めて見たんですよね。
 
 
 
で、、、
 
もう、登場した瞬間から
愛くるしくて、可愛くて
 
とにかく見てるだけで癒されるんです。
 
 
MTG中なのに、
 
ついつい赤ちゃんの方を見ちゃったり、
手を振って見たり、
 
 
あぁ〜〜もう可愛すぎましたww
 
 
そうそう、その方の父親としての姿も
初めて見たので新鮮でしたw
 
 
あなたもこういう経験ないですか?
 
 
赤ちゃんを見てるだけで癒されるってこと。
 
 
 
あ、もちろん、
 
私は、
 
外で会っただけなので、
 
実際は、夜泣きが凄かったりとか
 
オムツ替えとか
 
ミルクとか大変なのかもしれません。
 
 
 
でも、
 
確かに、
 
見てるだけで癒しを受けたんですよね〜〜〜
 
 
MTG中に、
 
赤ちゃんが飽きたそぶりを見せてると
すかさず、iphoneを渡して、
ゲームをさせてみたり、
 
あやしたりという姿を見てる時、
 
 
赤ちゃんって
 
いるだけで、幸せを与えてくれるんだな〜〜
 
ってしみじみ感じたんですよね。
 
 
 
でも、
 
これって赤ちゃんだけじゃありません。
 
 
我々、大人だってそうです。
 
 
本来は、
 
存在してるだけで、
他の人に幸せを与えてるんです。
 
 
でも、
 
大人になるにつれ、
 
そういう大事なことを忘れてたなぁ〜〜
 
って。
 
 
 
昔の私は、
 
なんでもかんでも
自分でできるようになる
 
そうじゃないとダメだって
思ってました。
 
 
だから、
 
話し方についての本を13冊買ったものの
ものの見事に全部読了できずに
いまだに家にあるとか笑
 
 
誰かとできない自分やできる自分を比べて、
優劣を感じたりということをしていました。
 
 
そうすることで、
 
自分の存在意義を明確にしようとしてました。
 
 
実際は、
 
こんな難しいこと考えてませんでしたけど、
やってることは、
 
比較によって、
 
自分を上に見たり、下に見たり
ということでした。
 
 
本当はそんなことしなくても
今のままの自分でいいのに。
 
 
今の私は、
 
人間って
 
「1つだけ自分だけの才能があって
 
あとは、できなくていい」
 
そういう存在だと確信しています。
 
 
 
なぜなら、、、
 
 
人間は、
 
1つの才能を極めるだけで、
 
あとのことを誰かに任せることによって、
 
幸せな人間関係が育まれていくから。
 
 
赤ちゃんって
 
ただいるだけで癒されますよね。
 
 
 
赤ちゃんがやることは、
 
ただその場にいるだけ。
 
 
いるだけで、
 
あとは何でもかんでも
親や周りの大人がやってくれますよね。
 
 
それは、
 
赤ちゃんには、
 
いるだけ以外が、できないからです。
 
 
でも、
 
赤ちゃんができるようになる必要はないんです。
 
 
赤ちゃんの役目は、
 
ただそこにいるだけ。
 
 
それだけで、周りは幸せなんです。
 
 
これと同じで、
 
 
人前で話ができる人は、
セミナーの司会だけを
 
ブログを書ける人は、
ブログだけを
 
デザインができる人は、
デザインだけを
 
カメラができる人は、
カメラだけを
 
 
自分が苦労しなくても当たり前にできる
あなただけの才能だけを伸ばせば、
 
 
あとは、
 
他人が勝手にやってくれます。
 
 
というより、
 
あなたが、自分の才能以外をやることは
他人の幸せを奪うことになるんです。
 
 
だって、
 
その役目は、
 
他人が幸せを感じるためのものだから。
 
 
あなたは、
 
自分の才能だけ磨けばいいんです。
 
 
 
冒頭で、
お話しした社長や役員になるという話、
 
 
これは、
 
私が、
 
「経営者」としての道を
極めたからこそ、来たお話です。
 
 
「他にも候補はいないわけじゃないけど
人間性的にもマーケティング的にも知ってて
社長ができるって考えると、
任せられるのは、私しかいない」
 
みたいなそんな感じでした。
 
(あ、特に話盛ってませんw)
 
 
私が、
 
苦手な人前で話すということを
13冊本を読んで、極めようとしても
絶対こういう話は来なかったと断言できます。
 
 
だって、
 
私が200%頑張ったとしても
才能のある人の10%に達するか否か
 
そのくらいだと思ってるからです。
 
 
極端な話、
それだけの差があるということです。
 
 
私は、
 
会社でもしてることは、
 
「シェア」だけです。
 
 
3年ほど前から
毎朝までは行かずとも
 
インスピレーションが湧いたり、
 
これは知っておいて欲しいということは
 
チャットを送って、「シェア」をしています。
 
 
これは、
 
私にとって、何の苦もなくできることです。
 
 
でも、
 
インスタの画像加工をしたり、
youtubeの動画編集をしたり、
外部の人と打ち合わせをしたり、
 
こういうの私は、やりたくないことです。
 
 
だから、
 
できなくていいんです。
 
 
人間は、
 
完璧を求めたがります。
 
昔は、私も完璧主義でした。
 
 
 
でも、
 
そもそも、
 
人間は、「欠けている」
 
というより、
 
たった1つだけ才能が備わっていて、
 
あとはできない
 
 
そういう存在なんだと気づいたんです。
 
 
 
だから、
 
もし、今あなたが
 
誰かと自分を比べて、
 
もっとこうしなきゃ・・
 
とか
 
もっとできるようにならなきゃ・・
 
なんて思ってるとしたら、
 
 
あなたが、
 
「最も簡単にできることを磨くことだけ」
 
してみてください。
 
 
 
あなたの才能を磨けば磨くほど、
 
さらにその才能が磨ける現実になっていきますし、
 
それ以外を補ってくれる存在のレベルも
どんどんアップしていきます。
 
 
私は、
 
会社の運営はできます。
 
宇宙の法則についても
かなり知っています。
 
 
でも、
 
それ以外は、
 
からっきしです。
 
 
料理もできませんし、
やろうとも思いません。
 
 
それなら、
 
美味しい外食を選択します。
 
 
これは、
 
料理好きな方からしたら、
節約にもなるし、
家でやればいいのに・・
 
 
って思うことかもしれません。
 
 
でも、
 
それ私の才能じゃないんです。
 
 
掃除洗濯も私はできません。
 
 
いまだに、
 
洗濯機の使い方すらわかりません。
 
 
でも、
 
それは、私の才能じゃないんです。
 
 
機械も全く触れません。
 
 
あ、PCやスマホはその誕生とともに
生きていたので、
 
最低限は触れますけど、
 
それ以外のことは知りません。
 
MacやiphoneXを使ってますけど、
正直、そのスペックを活かしきれてはないですw
 
 
その反面、
 
ガジェット?っていうんですかね。
 
よくわからないですけど、
PCやスマホに精通してる方もいます。
 
 
でも、
 
私の才能じゃないので
知りません。
 
 
突き詰めていくと、
 
できることの方が、
人間って少ないんです。
 
 
もともと、
 
そうプログラムされてるんです。
 
 
だから、
 
人間は、1人じゃ生きていけないんです。
 
 
助け合って生きるから、
人間なんです。
 
 
何でもかんでもやってる方、
 
もう終わりにしませんか。
 
 
あなたがしてること、
 
他の人の幸せを奪ってます。
 
 
あなたは、あなただけの才能を磨きましょう。
 
 
そうしたら、
 
あなたの周りの方も
 
少しずつか劇的にかは
その時によってわかりませんが、
 
必ず、「あなたのサイズ」の人が
現れるようになります。
 
 
こうやって、
 
他人と補い合うから
みんなが幸せなんですよ。
 
 
赤ちゃんの話から
 
めちゃくちゃ飛躍したかもしれませんが、
 
あなたの才能、
 
ぜひ、磨いてみましょう。
 
 
それが、
 
赤ちゃんと同じように、
 
「いるだけで幸せを与える」
 
ということに繋がります。
 
 
ぜひ、意識してみてください。
 
 
本日もあなたの人生が軽やかでお喜楽なものになることを
心から応援しています^^
 

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